National Anal Sex Month!!

Wow, So I just found out that August is National Anal Sex Month! It's TRUE! I promise I wouldn't make this stuff up! I have spent a few hours trying to figure out how and when August became the Official Month for backdoor loving, but I have not found a solid resource on that..... But hey, it's a great excuse to write a blog about the possibilities for anal pleasure.

Now for all you straight guys that are rubbing your hands together excitedly, this anal sex thing goes both ways, each gender has an anus, and unlike us ladies, you even have a g-spot in there, or "he-spot" as some like to call it. The prostate gland is considered the male g-spot, and stimulation of this area can result in earth shattering orgasms. You may have to open your mind (thinking of the puns I could have inserted here... I will resist) if the anus is something you have always considered an exit only. I must assure you men, that the reports are glowing, and this is an experiment worth trying. The Male G-Spot Massager is an excellent product for exploring the joys of the prostate gland, it has a curved shaft to target just the right areas, and a removable roller ball attachment for perineal massage.

For a lot of people anal sex can seem very intimidating, and gets a bad reputation for not being very romantic, but this can be a very pleasurable and intimate area to enjoy as a couple. It is very important to remember when you do engage in anal sex to use lot's and lot's of lubrication, and lot's of communication. Communicate to your partner what does and does not feel good. You would want to start out slowly, start with a finger, or a slim toy. Again, use lot's of lubrication, the anus is not a self lubricating orifice, and when I say lubrication I don't mean saliva, it's best to use a specially formulated sexual lubricant. Such as one of the many lubricants, found on my website.

Some people report that they prefer to engage in anal sex after a nice cleansing shower, others will say that it is important to use the restroom before engaging in anal penetration. Others will use enemas to cleanse the area, but it is important to note, that, frequent use of enemas is not a good health practice.... this is not necessary either though some do use it as a preparatory method.

Another important tip is to remember to be careful of cross contamination with the vagina, be sure to use a condom, latex glove, or finger cot to prevent e. coli bacteria from coming in contact with the vaginal and urethral area. Additionally it is important to note that only toys made of metal or glass, can be completely sterilized and therefore rubber, jelly and silicone toys should either be designated for anal use only (for one person i.e. not used on anyone else), or you can cover your anal toys with a condom to protect them from bacteria they may come in contact with during anal use.

Some people like to use an anal numbing cream to ease the natural tendency to tighten the sphincter. There are a myriad of toys that can increase the pleasure of anal sex. Anal beads rapidly removed right at the moment of orgasm can result in explosive pleasure, they come in all different shapes and sizes, butt plugs can also be fun, and playful anal toy. It's important to try many things, to see which is the most enjoyable for you.

Anal sex can be very pleasurable for both partners, and in both genders, so if you are feeling adventurous give it a try sometime. If it's old hat for you then keep on, keeping on.