Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Does Celery Make You Feel Sexy?

Celery, pumpkin seeds, bananas, almonds and avocados.......What do all these foods have in common?

Well, Rumor has it they are foods that boost your libido! Maca and celery rank as the top two sex inducing foods, but I was surprised by some of the others....Saurkraut!!! I had no idea! I thought cured cabbage was only responsible for causing gas! Asparagus is on the list too, high in Vitamin E "The sex Vitamin" it is rumored to have the strongest effect if eaten 3 days in a row, according to the Vegetarian Society.

Talk about Stinky pee!

Check out Energise Blog: Natural Health & Alkaline Diet to get all the details!

The Sensual Zodiac: Pisces

Zodiac Secrets of the
Sensual Pisces Woman


The Sensuous Pisces Woman has a tendency to experience love at
first sight more than any other sign. Think about it. When you fall in
love, you don’t just “fall,” you tumble head-over-heels.

Sensitive, Alluring, and Responsive...

You’re fascinating to watch. If you are not already a dancer you surely
could be because you don’t just walk into a room, you float through the
door. When you smile or talk, your loving personality shines through
like a bright, beaming star. This romantic radiance of yours has an
overwhelming effect on people. Your energy naturally draws them to
you and even makes them feel better about themselves.
If your sex-appeal were a perfume… it would be called
Sensual Surrender.”

Why? Because romance is the drumbeat to your soul. You wear passion around your neck like a pearl necklace. When others are fearful about love – you abandon yourself to it. According to the Sensual Zodiac, no other sign loves as thoroughly and romantically as you.

And here’s another sexy secret about you:
You long to be totally free in bed. You want to be swept away on a sea of emotion and lose yourself completely. You want sex that is rich in sensuality and dripping with intensity. You need a lover whose passionate kisses and caresses make you tremble with excitement.

How to seduce you?
The old fashioned way where romance comes first, followed by endless nights of passionate sex. You prefer naturally romantic settings so you can let your imagination run wild.

Best romantic ritual for you:
You are the kind of lover who has to get super-relaxed before sex. The element of water is your romantic aphrodisiac… and that’s why anything that brings you deep relaxation is the best romantic ritual for you. And of the many ways you could find to relax… a long, luxurious, romantic bath always tops the list.

Most romantic places for you to make love:
• On a plush blanket, while lying on the sand of a warm, secluded beach.
• In a Jacuzzi hot tub, filled with fragrant flowers and overflowing with silky milky bath bubbles.
• On the king sized waterbed in the master suite of a private yacht.


Best Passion Products for you:
While other women are happy to have one orgasm, you’ll sign up for three. According to the Sensual Zodiac, sensuous Pisces women are more prone to having G-spot orgasms than any others. And since G-spot orgasms are written in the stars for you, the toy I recommend is the Nubby G.

Oh, don’t let its curved head fool you. The Nubby G is a precision G-spot finder, designed to locate, and stimulate that sensitive spot inside you. Although it is a fantastic friend when you’re flying solo, you’ll really come to appreciate it’s true possibilities after you include some “Nubby G time” along with your partner.

Here’s what you do:
Start out with your normal kissing and stroking foreplay. When you are sufficiently aroused, reach for the Nubby G and hand it to your partner. Using a little lubricant, show him how to use it to find and massage your G-spot. While he is massaging your G-spot with the Nubby G, encourage him to manually stimulate your clitoris at the same time. Sigh, relax and you will soon be welcomed to the world of the clitoral and G-spot orgasm... where afterglow is guaranteed to be wonderful!

Sex Secrets of the Pisces man

Sexiest Pisces Celebrity: “Mark McGrath”

Who is the sensuous Pisces man?
He is emotional, dreamy, sensual and has a rich fantasy life. According to the Sensual Zodiac, the Pisces male fantasizes about sex more times per day than any other sign. However, it’s his willingness to make it “all about you” that is his secret calling card. He has charm, wit and an uncanny way of using his sensuous lips to steal your kisses and your heart. His poetic, artistic approach is devastatingly attractive to almost any woman.

How to please a sensual Pisces man
Intensity and sincerity are his mental aphrodisiacs. So bring your playfulness and passion into the bedroom. He’s looking for a woman to match his appetites for passionate living. Deep inside, he’s an old fashioned, all-or-nothing kind of guy. He remains restless until he finds a playmate as well as a soul-mate with whom he can be himself. If you want to please this sensuous man, don’t hold back in bed… because he’s looking for a woman to share the best of everything… including passion.

What scares him?
Loneliness. As private and as sensitive as he may seem, he doesn’t like the taste of his own company for too long. That’s why sensual Pisces men tend to marry women who are best friends, as well as best lovers. Your ability to keep him interested will depend on your ability to keep your romance intriguing, playful and fun.

His Secret Sexual Fantasy
A relationship without boundaries and sex without limits. A sensual Pisces man loves to have wild, uninhibited, shake-the-paintings-off-the-walls and wake-up-the-neighbors sex. He’s private, he’s passionate and he’s fearless. His secret fantasy is to wake up every morning with a loving woman who brings out the animal in him.

Tips for seducing the Sensuous Pisces man
Drive him wild by…
1. Worshiping at his feet. His “feet” are one of his pleasure zones. If he’s never had a loving foot massage, be the first to give him one and he’ll soon be addicted. Start with an in-home foot spa. Wash and cleanse his feet lovingly. Then follow up with a Tantra Tootsie and soon he will be putty in your hands.
2. Indulging his weakness for sweetness. All Sensuous Pisces men have a weakness for sweetness. If you want to blow his mind, find ways to exploit his sweet-tooth in bed. Dip your lips in powered sugar and then give him a sweet sticky kiss. Rub some of your favorite flavor of Nipple Nibblers onto your nipples and breasts. Dust your body with RomantaTherapy® White Chocolate Passion Powder and let him feast. Spend time letting him lick Passion Pudding off your body. But most of all have fun!

(excerpted from “Your Sensual Zodiac” by Suzie Johnson)

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Whack it for your Health!

Well, I am happy to report to all you guys out there, research shows that masturbation can lower your chances of prostate cancer! Hurray! According to research findings, men who ejaculate more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer later in life.

Australian Researchers have found that ejaculation causes a clearing out of the fluids, by removing and flushing out substances including potassium, zinc, fructose and citric acid, which are drawn from the bloodstream. Australian Researcher, Dr Giles, said fewer ejaculations may mean the carcinogens build up.

"It's a prostatic stagnation hypothesis. The more you flush the ducts out, the less there is to hang around and damage the cells that line them."

Being a man-whore isn't the answer though, because researchers feel that sexual intercourse alone does not have the same protective effects due to the possibility of contracting sexually transmitted disease, which increases the overall cancer risk.

So, keep it at home my man, and give that rod a-stroking, because apparently that's the best way to help gain the beneficial effects of the semen flush out!

Check out my site's, products for him for a little something extra to enhance masturbation enjoyment. I have a handful of products that make masturbation feel a little less solitary, and a lot more enjoyable! Try out our top selling masturbation sleeve, Gigi, it is extremely stretchy to pleasure men of all sizes. Modeled after a real vagina, Gigi is lined with ribbing for extra pleasure and completely reversible for cleaning. Use RomantaTherapy™ Sensual Warming Lubricant for a realistic experience. If Gigi, isn't something you can get your head into (pun intended!), please remember to at least use a lubricant that is specifically formulated for sexual pleasure. You won't be sorry! Stay tuned for more details and tips on Masturbation.... And remember, it may be saving your life!

Saturday, February 16, 2008

The Sensual Zodiac: Aquarius

Hi there, faithful readers, get used to seeing this topic in my blogs. I love Astrology, and will be sharing with you fascinating information excerpted from "Your Sensual Zodiac" by Suzie Johnson.

Secrets of the Sensual Aquarius Woman

You are among the people most likely to be seen on a nude beach. Sensual Aquarians like to be “au natural.”

What makes you such a sensational treat?

It is because your feelings run so deep.The truth is, we know by now, to expect anything from you.Yet you continue to surprise and fascinate us.You are a living example of female power, laced with undeniable grace. You glide through life as if you are floating on a cloud of cotton candy.Like a sunflower, your smile lights up the natural beauty of your face.You were born to give love, which means you will always be loved.

Kind, Intuitive, Free Spirit.

Quietly you rebel against mediocrity. You have a knack for seeing things as they really are.Opposing forces have no power over you.You have the true riches of life. You understand the importance of taking time to explore and stay connected with your loved ones
.
Here is another little secret about you:
You have had many high moments of spontaneous joy and wonder. In fact, your open nature gives you the ability to laugh during orgasm or cry during a sunset.


The biggest secret of your sex appeal?
Pure sensual energy shimmers around you like fairy dust. If they named a perfume after you, they could call it “Innocence.” WHY? Because you exude the purest essence of compelling innocence and sensuality of all the Sensual Zodiacs. Subtle, yet powerful. You do not have to act out, in order to stand out.


How to seduce you?
Patience is the password. Genuine friendship is the key that unlocks your door. With you, true love is when two friends fall in love. You like the idea of “interest” before intimacy. For you, sex is a very private matter and “friendship” is similar to foreplay. Love-making is a union of body, thoughts and feelings. You need the space to create, the freedom to feel, and the permission to let your feelings flow like liquid.


What else has the power to enchant you?
You enjoy romantic rituals that are based on mutual interest. Things like cooking a gourmet meal, spending time in the Rockies, flying kites in Central Park, or swimming with the dolphins. Whatever you do, you prefer to enjoy the feeling of connection before feeling comfortable enough to totally open up.


Your best passion product?
The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex. Why? Because you are one of life’s great romantics and you like to learn new things. This book helps guide you and your partner to new and exciting experiences. It is perfect for you.


And cause we don't want to leave out those SEXY Male Aquarians......


Sensual Aquarian Man

Ultimate Sensual Aquarian Celebrity: Justin Timberlake

The Sensual Aquarian man?

Have you ever met a man who you were completely fascinated with?You get the feeling that you have known him for years,even though you just met. Moreover, although you cannot quite put your finger on it, you know there is something very special about him that stands out. You get the feeling that no matter what he wants in life, that somehow, he will find a way to get it.

Deep, Mysterious, Fascinating.

You have now met the Sensual Aquarian male. While he may appear reserved on the outside, he is a complete romantic-rebel through and through. He penetrates your soul with just a single glance from his piercing eyes. Even when you cannot see him,you sense his presence. He goes about living life completely.

The Sensual Aquarius man is fierce, independent and creative.
You find that, more often than not, he is underestimated by strangers and respected by friends. He is the perfect example of apeaceful warrior. He is a life-scientist who understands there is total order behind all chaotic appearances in our universe.

Life with a Sensual Aquarian
Being in love with him is a voyage of discovery. He is seeking endless adventure and is willing to experiment, take risks and explore. One night in his arms and you may lose more than your clothing. You could very easily lose your inhibitions, your mind and your heart as well. So watch out.

Here is another fascinating secret about him.
He loves to discover what makes you tick. He has a ridiculously sharp and intuitive understanding of women. Ladies be warned: Don’t let his “nonchalant” attitude fool you. Once he discovers what you want, he is quick to deliver it on a sliver platter. Unlike so many men, he seems to understand those secret places in a woman’s soul and is not afraid to nurture them.

His secret sexual fantasy?
A woman more uninhibited than him.
He wants to be totally swept away by a sensual, powerful woman who is willing to experiment. Secretly, he longs to surrender. Not to be in charge or know what is coming next but to be the one being pursued and seduced…if even just for a night.

His biggest turn-off?
Anything small, petty or average. The second he senses any of those three things, he instinctively pulls away. Deep down, he’s a generous soul with a big heart. He’s a friend to all good people and all good people are friends to him.

What else attracts him?
A great sense of humor. For him, laughter is the language of the gods. If you want to keep him happy for life, keep finding ways to spark his amusement
and entertain him with laughter. Don’t hold back, because “fun” is like an all-access pass to his heart and his emotions.

What his best passion product?
The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex. Read the “Great Adventures” section in bed together. Then spend the rest of the night trying new things. Your willingness to explore and experiment will totally excite him.


Sexercise!!

That's right! And I'm not talking about the exercise you get while you are having intercourse, that will be the topic for another blog!

No, I am talking about toning and tightening your pelvic floor muscles, the PC, or pubococcygeus muscles, if you wanna get technical. This set of wonderful muscles, when excercised on a regular basis, can assist you with achieving a quicker, more intense climax and benefit your partner by being able to tighten harder around his penis.

Maybe, if you've had a baby, you may have heard of these exercises before, they are often taught to expectant mothers as a way to help tone the muscles in preparation for giving birth. Additionally these exercises help after the birth of the baby to tighten stretched muscles, and help with incontinence and other health issues later in life.
Fantastic! But, as I mentioned above.....

IT MAKES YOUR ORGASMS BETTER!! HELLO!

I mean, not peeing on yourself later in life is great and all, but I vote for better orgasms now as my main motivating factor to doing these exercises, and you don't even have to break a sweat! Now that's my kind of workout!

Some of the benefits of exercising the PC muscles are:

• Makes it easier for you to reach orgasm
• Makes your orgasms stronger/better
• Tightens the vaginal muscles which enhances your and your partner’s feeling
• Promotes sexual self-confidence
• Assists with the ability to have multiple orgasms (Yes! Please!)
• Increases blood flow to the vagina
• Medically beneficial in preventing certain ailments and sexual difficulties
• Makes vaginal childbirth and recovery easier
• Strengthens the muscles involved with bladder control
• Can be done discreetly anywhere, anytime (I'm doing them now, you could never tell!)

Often these exercises are called Kegels because Dr. Arnold Kegel, who recognized the health benefits of this exercise, came up with the four most common exercises, which include stengthening all the groups of muscles that are involved, they are:

Contract and Hold
Squeeze this muscle group and hold it for a count of ten. Then contract and hold for another count of ten. Continue doing this.

Flutter
Contract the muscle group as quickly as you can. These won’t be large squeezes, just rapid light ones. Stop, take a rest – and then do it again.

The Elevator
Imagine that there’s a little elevator in your pelvic region and that you want to raise it up floor-by-floor to the top floor. So, start at the ground floor and go up to the first floor, then up the second floor, and last, to the third floor. Then gradually allow the "elevator" to go back down stopping at each floor. Once you get to the ground floor, completely relax the muscles you’ve just exercised.

The Workout
For even better and quicker results, having something to squeeze will make Kegel exercises easier to do and feel more natural. Using weighted balls such as Ben Wa, Pleasure Pods or Sports Balls, insert only one ball or side at first. Squeeze and release for two minutes. When you start to notice greater muscle strength, add the second ball or side.

BUT! Wait! How does one find theses muscles?

Well, I'm glad you asked, it's as easy as pie.... or peeing that is. *giggles*
Simply start and stop your stream of urine several times while urinating and you’ve found your PC muscles. The PC muscle is a hammock-like muscle that stretches from the pubic bone to the tailbone (coccyx) and forms the pelvic floor. When doing Kegels, try to only use these muscles. At first you may contract your chest, abdominal, back and anal muscles, too, but with practice you’ll be able to focus solely on the PCs.

Good luck with trying out your new workout plan! If you decide you need any excercise gear, let me know! I have some special items that can help you follow Dr. Kegels, Workout: The old tried and true, Ben-Wa balls, a new twist on an old favorite, the slightly larger, an silkier version, The Pleasure Pearls, and last but, most certainly not least, are the easy to use and locate, Pleasure Pods, which look almost like a little mini dumbell. All of which are available for sale through my website:

http://www.passionatemermaid.com

Also feel free to email me if you have any (real... vs. let's talk dirty to the sexpert) questions about kegels, or these products.

some information and excerpts taken from:
Kegel Exercises: Strengthening Your Pelvic Floor Muscles
Sexual Well-Being By Passion Parties
© 2006 Passion Parties, Inc. Reproduction and distribution by Passion Consultants™ is permissible for informational purposes only.

Saturday, February 9, 2008

you're Selling WHAT??

"You're selling WHAT?"

This seemed to be the general concensus when I was first introducing my new Home Party Business to many of my friends and family......

The next top quote would have to be, "OH! I have heard of those parties, the ones with the sex toys, right?"

So, it's not completely unheard of, this is something that made my new career choice a little easier for my Mother to accept. She admits now, that she thinks it is leaps and bounds better than my first idea...... Yeah, the one where I wanted to become a Dominatrix........

The third phrase of choice, when I am bringing up my new business venture, mostly from men, is, "So, do you give demonstrations?"

Without truly understanding the connotation of this question, at first, I would pertly reply " Oh yes I definitely do demonstrations!"

Uh oh, fortunately it didn't take me long to figure out what the implication there actually was! lol!

Anyway. YES! I do those parties, and I love it! I recently signed up as an Independent Consultant, selling Passion Parties, and it has been a totally empowering and exciting adventure ever since! I've been a stay at home Mommy for many years, and I really wanted to find something interesting, fulfilling, and most importantly(especially for my little Gemini personality) something FUN, that I could do outside of the house to earn money. I have been down that road of busting my butt for somebody else, and that just doesn't appeal to me anymore. I wanted to have control over my hours, my earnings, and be the maker of my own destiny. Additionally I have always been very interested in all aspects of Human Sexuality, Passion Parties is the perfect fit for me!

My overt interest in sex, and sexuality, has been a source of skepticism for some of the people in my life over the years (my Mom, my Sister, those girls who thought I was a Ho), but the reality is that we're all "doing it". I love that slowly but surely people are coming out of the closet (so to speak) and becoming more comfortable with sexuality in general. I have always been the "go to" girl amongst my friends for the latest in sexual information, be it health, kink, fetish, birth control, safety factors during pregnancy...you name it.

It has been quite empowering to be able to put this knowledge to good use, and to find a way to educate other women, and couples on how to get the most pleasure from of thier bodies, and romantic encounters. My presentation is tasteful, and educational, and....let's admit it, sex is a big, HUGE part of human relationships. Finding ways to make that aspect of these relationships more pleasurable, and fulfilling is very heroic.....

See, I'm a freaking Hero! lol :)

Anyways, Check me out for more tales (or should I say "tails" lol)of the adventurous life of an adult toy saleswoman, also interesting and informative articles on sexuality, news of the weird, funny stories, and quite possibly a rant or two from a Mom to two rambunctious boys. I can't promise it will all be on the up and up though *winks*

Things may get a little steamy around here.....

To see what I am talking about take a look at my spicy website, and think about when you want to book your next party! Maybe you'd like to join my team and share in the dream of owning your own company, earn money while having fun at parties. I never knew making money could be such a blast!
http://www.passionatemermaid.com/